Mix & Mingle Monday

Hello Dears
Let’s mix it up a bit. I’m already late as I planned to post this earlier in the morning. I digress. Oh well, there is no better time than the present, and I’m on it now! Lol.. This post is kinda lengthy, but worth it. Sit tight, and cop a squat.

Moving right along.

I really like the definition of mingle, and mix & mingle is more a play on words as it relates to my post today. For starters the word “Mingle” means: mix or cause to mix together: “an expression that mingled compassion and bewilderment”. To move freely around a place or at a social function, associating with others”.

So my Dears, I want you to think of my blog as a place to move around and get a full on mix of everything you may need to get you through your day. I want this to be a place of comfort, hope, and relatable experiences. Many of us are more alike than we are different. It’s sounds good for someone to be constantly happy, never experiencing any pain or disappointment or feelings of worthlessness. If every single second of every day is happy happy, joy, joy, then someone is kidding themselves. The issue is, that we don’t share our hurts, mishaps and disappointments. I’ve been guilty of this myself, but then if I don’t share, how can I inspire? Not saying you should share your whole self, but you know, pick and choose your audience. You never know who may be sitting front row needing a word from you. I have my good and bad days, same as anybody else. Things don’t always go the way I expect, sometimes I’m going in circles, and it’s no use in me pretending that I am completely perfect on all levels, because it’s just not true. Sometimes, I literally have to push myself and talk to God just to get out of the bed in the morning. This single mother thing is no field trip through ice cream valleys, and sugar cone streams. It’s hard. I thank God for his hand on my life, and for the support system he has set in place for me. I was twenty-seven years old when I lost my mother, and although I miss her beyond what words can express, God has afforded me the opportunity to come across other mothers who have loved me, and encouraged me as if I were their own. It’s remarkable the women of phenomenal distinction I’ve crossed paths with. Oh the honor. Everyday that I go on, that I write, and I encourage another, I am paying honor to them who have done the same for me. I press.

I’ve been having conversations with an exceptionally rare gem. A single mother, strong, anointed, gifted, and powerful. A wise one, with dreams that go beyond the scope of humanization, dreams that could only be painted by God. I am not going to expose her, but incase she happens upon my blog, she’ll know, this is for her. I believe in you, and it’s for good reason. When you get discouraged, just come here, and get an ounce full of hope to keep pushing. Don’t settle for less, and know your worth. You are even worth so much, that the devil is fighting Jesus for you. We wage war against the enemy, and I declare with authority from the most high that he is defeated. We press.

I stand
You laugh and mock the life I made for you. How did I get here. Stripped of myself, my beauty, and dreams.

Naked before you, and the world. I can’t hide the truth of it all. I gave it all, and tried with my best try, and it still shattered before my eyes.

Before days light, I’ve cried an ocean for you and with every tear, I lost a part of me. I’m tumbling through life and it’s chaotic. Desperately seeking a peak of the woman I use to be. The calm comes when I just stand. Something tells me, Woman, you must stand!
I hear laughter, and children playing on the carousal of life.
I feel the heat of myself and I quiver with anticipation of meeting me again.
I stand tall.
And you, are a distant memory of tears dried by the sun of the new day’s light.
I am me again.
Breathing, living, beautiful, fearfully and wonderfully living my dreams.

That was for somebody, who ever the shoe fits, wear it and know, you are not alone.
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It seems it’s been so long since I’ve done an outfit post. Not that I couldn’t have, I just haven’t. Well, I’m challenging myself to do this no less than 3-5 times this week. Ha! We shall see. I love this outfit, and with the weather changing, my mood is too. I felt like mixing it up, wishing for spring time. That’s where these cute little peach pants came into play. I found these thrifting a few months back and I had them dry cleaned and kinda forgot about them. This fabric is like, butter. I can’t describe it, they just feel good.
I hope you enjoy the outfit, and my mix and mingle post. Let me know and thanks for reading.

I’m wearing:
Glittered tank- thrifted
Military Blazer- F21
Slacks- thrifted
Leopard pumps-Amsterdam boutique
Jewelry- H&M

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Yay me!! Outfit post accomplished!

Peace and blessings,
Dee

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12 comments
  1. Brad said:

    Love the poem, I hope you keep sharing your
    Gift.

  2. bloohmoon said:

    Great post and beautiful peom.

    • cheapfabmom said:

      Thank you!! I appreciate your comment. thanks for reading. šŸ™‚

  3. Nicole Elmore said:

    Tears are uncontrollably!!
    I STAND, I STAND, I STAND
    I Thank you for standing for us and starting your blog
    I THANK YOU FOR STANDING AND SHARING YOUR TESTIMONIES/ YOUR LIFE WITH US. I love the poem, so Powerful…
    Thank you for believing in me, I thank you for being there to listen, I thank you for lifting me up. I thank GOD For the beautiful woman you are!!! I love you Delisa, I say that with all of my heart.. Today I stand with you..

    • cheapfabmom said:

      awwwww. Thanks Nic!! I’m glad you enjoyed it. It’s great when people can come together in love, spirit and truth. Your comment means everything!
      Thanks you for standing with me, as we stand for all the women who may not yet have a voice.
      Dee

  4. Nicole Elmore said:

    Delisa, You are so Beautiful I LOVE THE PICTURES!!!!!

  5. Tavia said:

    This was a wonderful post! I loved the poem, the words of life and encouragement, Beautiful! Now let’s talk about this fit…LOVING it! I like how everything is working together to make this ensemble amazing. šŸ™‚

    ~Tavia
    http://www.ninetofly.blogspot.com

    • cheapfabmom said:

      thanks Tavia! I love how you said “let’s talk about this fit”… hilarious! šŸ™‚
      I appreciate your support
      Dee

  6. Ubdivine97 said:

    As always encouraging & inspiring. Really loving your look, the whole ensemble. Cute!!!

  7. I cannot get over how stunning you are inside out!

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